Almost all our FOCUS families are looking forward to a little down time spent with loved ones over the winter holidays. But – You Better Watch Out! As our occupational therapists can explain, a break from the routine of regular school, sports, occupational therapy and other activities for three full weeks can be enough to throw any child off-balance. It’s especially true for children with sensory processing disorder, exacerbated when in lieu of those routines, they’re feeling the sensory overload of parties, people, music, lights, recitals/ plays/ shows, decorations and different foods.

Reducing the risk of over-stimulation and the kind of routine disruption that leads to major meltdowns, our Fort Myers pediatric occupational therapists urge parents to “ease through the season.” That doesn’t mean your child can’t participate in or won’t enjoy your family’s much-cherished traditions. In fact, this time of year can be an excellent learning opportunity for those with sensory challenges or social anxiety. It just means that to maximize the time you have, plan ahead when possible and be mindful of the ways in which your child is experiencing these same events.

Occupational Therapists Want to See a Merrier Season for All

Although it’s been said many times, many ways: Prepare, prepare, prepare. It doesn’t necessarily have to be a huge ordeal, but just take a few minutes to consider where you’re going, whether you’re traveling, how many are likely to be there and what sensory obstacles can you reasonably foresee. For example, if you’re planning a busy day with lots of activities or an extended trip, a weighted or compression vest might go a long way. Keep sensory tools handy. And even if you think your child may not fully understand, take a little time to explain the plan – the night before, the morning of, on the way there and just before you get there. That way they aren’t completely caught off guard.

Try your best to stick as close to the routine as possible. Of course everything won’t be exactly the same, and helping your child adjust to activities and transitions outside a rigid routine can be very positive. But keeping mealtimes, bedtimes and wake up times as close as possible to the normal schedule can help avert meltdowns.

Everything in moderation. Occupational therapists for children usually recommend if it’s possible spacing out activities so that your child has a chance to “check in” with their bodies and adjust to it all. Although numerous activities in a day might be just fine for sensory seekers, you may want to plan calming breaks for those with aversions to to crowds, noise and lights.

Sensory-seekers on long trips may benefit from setting aside time to move, stretch or even a “heavy work break.” Carve out some time for them to burn off that pent-up holiday energy with a fast walk, jump or swinging.

Respect your child’s tactile sensitivities. We know it can be frustrating or disappointing when your child refuses to don the apparel you’ve carefully spent hours Pinteresting for the perfect family photo. But if wearing the clothing makes your child feel physically uncomfortable, the photos weren’t going to be that great anyway, right? If you can try to choose an outfit you already know he or she will be comfortable wearing, it will probably go more smoothly for anyone.

And speaking of discomfort, our occupational therapists advise against forcing any child (regardless of challenges) to give or accept hugs and kisses from anyone if it’s against their wishes.

Finally, plan out activities in advance in which your child can channel their focus, work on fine motor skills and feel a part of a tradition. Examples are things like making cookies, construction paper looping as part of the family tree decorations or other arts and crafts. Enjoy listening to soft, easy holiday music and quiet storytelling – together as a family. Keeping the volume and lights  low can be the difference in helping them stay engaged.

FOCUS offers occupational therapy in Fort Myers, Lehigh Acres, Cape Coral and throughout Lee County and Southwest Florida. Call (239) 313.5049 or Contact Us online.

Additional Resources:

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